Saturday, March 14, 2020

Some Ways to Be Happier!

  1. Scientists say walking tall with swinging arms helps you feel more positive.
  2. When you smile, you can change your brain’s chemistry and feel happier.
  3. Find ways to get involved in your community or help out a friend in need. You’ll help yourself, too. It can improve your mental health.
  4. Make New Friends: Be open to new relationships, whether it’s someone you meet at the office, gym, or park. But be sure to maintain those lifelong connections, too. Studies show the more connected you are, the happier you are.
  5. Count Your Blessings: Write down everything that’s good in your life. When you make an effort to look on the bright side, it helps you stay focused on the positive.
  6. It can take as little as 5 minutes for exercise to put you in a better mood. Moving your body also has good long-term effects: Regular exercise helps keep depression at bay.
  7. Forgiveness frees you from negative thoughts and makes more room in your life for inner peace. And that brings you happiness.
  8. Music can have a powerful effect on your emotions. Pick your favorite music mix and get into the groove.
  9. Happiness is about more than momentary pleasure. It’s also in the satisfaction of pursuing your goals. 
  10. Tackle Your Goals: Ask yourself if they are realistic and within your reach now -- or at least, things that you can start to work toward. Then get really specific about what the goal is -- not “to work out more” but “to walk 30 minutes a day, three times this week,” or “I’ll have a salad for lunch twice this week.”  
  11. Seek Positive People: “Emotions are contagious,” as the saying goes. So you want people in your life who are confident, upbeat, and health.


Charlie Chaplin - The Lion Cage

Monday, February 24, 2020

How to Attract Terrific People

Make someone feel better about themselves when in your company.

* Be alert for any chance to praise another.
* Be fun to be with.
* Be genuinely concerned about what's going on in the life of the other.
* Suspend your agenda in the interest of the other's.
* Encourage and affirm your friend at every opportunity.
* Listen twice as much as you talk.
* Give genuine compliments, frequently. How to Attract Terrific People - by Mike Moore
* Accept the person as they are and not as you want them to be.
* Ask questions and listen to their answers.
* Be enthusiastic.
* Be a friend without conditions.

There is nothing more flattering or rare than the undivided attention of another.
It is more important to be interested than interesting.

Thursday, February 20, 2020

Life’s too short to think small.

  1. Think big and don’t listen to people who tell you it can’t be done. Life’s too short to think small.
  2. Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.
  3. Be what you are. This is the first step towards becoming better than you are.
  4. Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow if you are willing to feel awkward and uncomfortable when you try something new.
  5. Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle.
  6. Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.
  7. Great work is done by people who are not afraid to be great.
  8. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit

Monday, February 17, 2020

Great Decisions 2020 Topics - Prepare to Discuss the World - Forsyth County Library: Time 7:00 p.m

Great Decisions is America's largest discussion program in world affairs. 

Great Decisions is America's largest discussion program on world affairs.  The program model involves reading the Great Decisions Briefing Book, watching the DVD and meeting in a Discussion Group to discuss the most critical global issues facing America today.

Great Decisions 2020 topics include:

Forsyth County Library: Time 7:00 p.m 

* January 29: Climate Change and the Global Order
* February 5: India and Pakistan
* February 12: Red Sea Security: 
* February 19: Modern Slavery and Human Trafficking
* February 26: U.S. Relations with the Northern Triangle
* March 4: China's Road into Latin America
* March 11: The Philippines and the U.S.
* March 18: Artificial Intelligence and Data