Wednesday, July 12, 2006

CHADAVA GALIGITHE PRATHI MANISHI JEEVITHAM VOKA MAHA GRANDHAME OUVUTHUNDHI KADAA!

Dear our sweet people,

Please go through these following questions. Are they suitable to get the gist one`s life?. Please add or improve the questionaire, if possible. I shall get it printed later.

with love, Naana

1] What gives you special pleasure in your relationship with your adult children?

2] Tell me something you admire about each of your children?

3] As you look back on your years of parenting, which is sometimes that give you a sense of contentment?

4] What message would you like to give to each of your children?

5] Which were your easiest years as a parent? Which were the hardest?

6] How did you spend vacations when your children were young?

7] Recall a summer, fall, winter, and spring memory with your children?

8] Who were the significant people in your life?

9] Whom were you closest to?

10] What activities did you share with your family and children?

11] In what ways were you continuing to increase your knowledge and skills?

12] Where did you invest most of your energy?

13] When did you begin to notice your children’s individuality and what ways?

14] Do you have a network of family or friends that can provide emotional support and assistance?

15] Who were your childhood friends? What did you most like to do together?

16] Who was your best friend?

17] What did you do when you came from school?

18] What books or stories were your favorites?

19] What were the historical events taking place during your childhood and how were you aware of them?

20] Recall your earliest memories of school?

21] Who was your favorite teacher?

22] What are the significant milestones in your career and in your personal life?

23] Tell which you think were thresholds and in what ways?

24] What hopes do you have for your future?

25] Tell about your wedding ceremony, who took part in it?

26] What specially stands out in your memory?

27] What surprises did you encounter in your marriage?
28] What are the some of the things you and your spouse did well together?

29] What were you involved in at school other than classes?

30] Tell about your close friend and how did you become friends?

31] How did you feel you were different from your family?

32] What ambitions and dreams did you have about the future?

33] Tell about a time when you felt exciting and adventurous for you?

34] Tell about something you did as a child that gave you a sense of competence?

35] What did you make that you were proud of?

36] Who were your childhood heroes?

37] In your circle of family and friends tell us about your favorites?

38] What did you hear about your mother’s/ father’s childhood?

39] Describe as significantly as you can a memory of them as your parents?

4o] what did you think were the dreams your parents had for you?


41] What attitude about life did you get from your parents?

42] What did you think was unique about your family?

43] As look back on your childhood, tell us something you learned that still value today?

44] How did you learn it?

45] So far, which have been the happiest times of your life?

46] What three statements would tell the most abut your philosophy of life?

47] What are your basic beliefs about people?

48] What have you loved most in your life? Things, Places, ideas, people.

49] Tell us about a time, when you felt alone, what helped you through that time?

5o] Recall when your caring and support helped someone through a difficult time?

51] What stories of your life would you like someone know that shed light on what has meant the most to you?

52] Describe a time of - Adventure, confusion, gentleness, awakening.

53] Tell us about how your interests have enriched your life?


54] Okay, you have FIVE WISHES they will come true, what are they?

55] Describe some specific moments of beauty in your life?

56] What changes would you make life today to make it more satisfying?

57] What do you resist?

58] What have you learned in past FIVE YEARS that surprises you?

59] What do you feel you are still learning?

60] What are your challenges today? What are you exploring?

61] What potential have you lately discovered?

62] To whom do you turn for comfort and guidance?

63] What matters most to you now and how do you make it a part of your daily life?

64] Who are the people providing the most satisfying companionship to you now?

65] What do you hope each of your children will always know?

66] As you look back on your years of parenting which are sometimes give you a sense of contentment?

67] What did you do to reinforce your child’s sense of self-worth?

68] Which are endearing episodes you remember?

69] What is the major crisis you faced?

70] What would you like your children to know about you?